DESTINY OF BEING A MASTER

I think every man that believes He is a Master can only truthfully do so because He is drawn to it for reasons which He cannot always explain. Being a Master should never be just about the sex or what He can acquire through ownership. No, a man must be drawn to it with a sense of destiny. The impetus for writing this article is a question that My slave asked of Me on several occassions: "What does a Master do? What is a Master?" My slave has had limited experience with a Master, but it has had enough experience to know that his destiny is that of a slave.

There are times when I wonder why I want to be a Master. Recently I read an article that inspired Me to write My own version of it and answer My slave's question. I do not know who the original author of the article was so I cannot give Him credit. The article resonated with Me on a very deep level. My version of the Master's article is paraphrased in some areas, but most of what Is written here is My own based upon the experiences I have had throughout My life as a Master with the nine slaves I have owned.

It is true that slaves provide a Master with services that a Master may or may not be able to perform for Himself. In My case, there is very little that a slave can provide to Me that I am not capable of doing for Myself. So why would I want to pursue ownership of slaves?

Many people have a very narrow perspective when it comes to understanding one Man's desire to own another. Many believe that the Master “has it made” or a slave must be crazy to want to submit its life to a Man who seemingly gets all of the benefit of the relationship. Believe Me, a Master pays for the services of a slave through His responsibility for a slave's life. Other than what is perceived on the surface, there really is no benefit to owning a slave. The responsibility that is added to a Master's life by owning slaves has no limits.

As the original author puts it, “Being an Owner is without limitation, either in time, effort, or level of responsibility.” When a Man accepts His destiny to be a Master He is committed for life to act in the best interests of the slave. Purpose through destiny best describes the intentions of the true Master. A Man who takes up the call of being an Owner of slaves “needs” to fulfill His destiny, what else is there for Him to do? Any reasons for Ownership other than destiny becomes evident and quickly fades with time.

On the flip side, the slave also needs to fulfill its destiny, for what else can it do? It is the Master's destiny to assure that the slave's destiny is fulfilled, for what else is there between the Master and a slave?

slave Development

When a slave first comes to live with its Owner, it is imperative that the slave be kept separate (as much as possible) from the Master's space. It is very difficult for a Master, especially in the beginning of the relationship, to focus on His own needs. The requirements for being a slave are serious and can be overwhelming to a new slave. A new slave will demand and require much of the Master's attention and focus. In order for the slave to examine his own issues requires that he be given private time away from the Master's gaze. It is most difficult within the first year when the slave is beginning to experience its birth or coming to terms with its slavery. Within that first year if the Master has not carefully honed the developing slave the return on His investment, which is substantial, is likely to be zero.

I have learned that being a very good Master, a very effective Master, one Who is capable of birthing a slave is very rare and takes an immense amount of time, energy and dedication. So why do it? Why would a Man want to expose Himself to that level of stress? These questions can only be answered by the fact that the Master has no choice, it is His destiny to do so. So the chance for success of being a good Master, who loves, cares for and feels a deep connection with His slaves that His desire must be to unselfishly want to give a slave its destiny of becoming a fully developed slave that is truly useful.

This begs the question: “How can a Master be developing His own life, determining the kinds of relationships, and other living and life arrangements He needs, and also be developing His slave's life as a first priority?” A Master must realize and appreciate that there are human limitations that prevent being clear and simultaneously behaving non-egotistically in such a manner so that a Master can only feel the slave's needs, above all else.

What is the Motivation for being a Master?

In My experience a Master's purpose cannot be isolated to mere sexual convenience of having a slave to use for that sole purpose. No, a Master's purpose must be far deeper than that. Being a Master, an Owner of slaves, is a lifetime commitment not only to Your own slaves but to all slaves and Masters alike. If a Master's reason for being an Owner of slaves is anything other than destiny then His motivation is insufficient to create any lasting relationship with a slave. But, beyond the reason of destiny a Master must find that His purpose also includes a purpose in each particular slave. So, a Master must choose slaves based on many criteria and can only be satisfied with the talents He seeks in slaves. In ancient times a slave Owner would not focus on acquiring a slave whose only talent was animal husbandry when He needed a cook. Furthermore, a Master's purpose is only achieved when a slave performs the required actions on His behalf and for Him.

The purpose of owning slaves must collectively be to satisfy the destiny of the Master and the slave simultaneously. The ultimate purpose however, must be the Owner's destiny. Any other motivation on the Master's part is insufficient. It is a lot of commitment to carry while being a Master and simultaneously determining His own needs, and implementing them.

It is My firm belief that in order to fulfill One's destiny as a Master and Owner of slaves the Master must realize and appreciate the fact that owning slaves is not a one-slave project, any more than mass producing computers is a one-computer project. Providing for a slave's destiny means understanding and knowing how life works, which, in My opinion, is impossible to determine from a one-slave experience. There must be many who, pursuing their slavery, quit, have made it, and many who are still developing and go on to develop with someone else. This is the formula for becoming qualified for being a slave Owner and Master.

It is also true for those destined to be slaves that they will go through or have experience with other Masters. As a Master You just hope that You are not the first but the last Master the slave will ever have. Being a slave means that its life is exposed to the world. It is not a private affair.

As a Master with some experience I have learned that becoming Owner to only one slave means that I am putting all the fulfillment and success of My destiny in the hands of a single slave. As a Master I understand that I must be able and willing to invest unselfish time, effort, focus, and emotions at the ready to provide unlimited direction, not modified or restricted by reservations to empowering the slave's development.

When a Master places all of his bets on the development of only one slave He must compromise Himself at times and make adjustments and act in a manner that convinces the slave to continue in its slavery development even when there is evidence that it does not appear to be in the slave's heart. At times a Master might feel compelled to reduce certain requirements and protocol, thinking that it will ease the pressure on the slave and allow it to continue pursuing its slavery. The idea of losing the individual that a Master has placed all His love, attention, investment, and expectations prevents a Master, at times, from acting in the best interests of the slave. However, it is true that a Master is only free to act in the best interests of another only when His own needs are NOT dependent on a single slave.

So what is the advantage of being a Master?

Why not direct Your attentions to other submissive people who are not destined to be a slave and still arrive at the same place...getting what You want from another? The very same question can be directed a the slave. Why couldn't a slave merely seek a person with dominant traits and arrive at the same place as if it had a Master? What are the rewards of being a Master? What are the rewards of being a slave? The only logical answer is that both Master and slave are drawn to it that it is not sufficient enough to engage in a relationship with merely a submissive or dominant individual. No, You must be an Owner of men, of slaves, to derive satisfaction of your life. A slave is driven by the consideration that it is owned without the same freedoms that being merely submissive will afford it. But, giving Your life to slaves has many requirements.

There are some humans who have a singular soul; with a single purpose. Some, however exist to share the same soul. A Master and a slave share the same soul. A Master sees His slaves as a part of Himself; and extension of His destiny. The slave is no more nor any less than Himself; This is the truth of a Master. The slaves are a part of Him and He is responsible for everything that they do, especially when a slave has accepted and achieved a level of obedience. Until the Master appreciates this fact the slave will never find its destiny; its birth as a fully authentic slave.

A Master, by definition, must have experienced and gone through His Own discovery of His destiny. No one helps the Master to achieve His authentic destiny as an Owner of slaves. The path of the Master is a lonely and difficult one. After all is said and done, a Master ends up in a position where He is permanently committed to being an Owner of slaves, thus ready to share His soul. When a Master is authenticated by the depth of His own commitment then and only then will He realize that there is no abandoning His destiny. A Master in many ways swears a personal oath to the Universe that He will act in the best interest of His slaves; without exception, without limit regardless of the personal affect it may have on His life. He is a warrior that expects nothing and receives very little in return.

A Master's commitment must be more complete than that which is required by any slave. The Universe of conscious awareness cannot be tricked so the Master takes a great deal of responsibility upon Himself. A Master's own destiny cannot ever be achieved without fully having developed the parts of Himself that call Him to that destiny. It takes time, something of which a Master may not always be able to control.

The Set Up

Offering Oneself as a Master and Owner of slaves to the development of a slave's destiny sets a Master up for being the object of all the anger, disappointment and betrayal that the developing slave must experience to ultimately know for sure what their destiny is, and to accept that destiny. While a Master is developing a slave out of love and a completely unselfish motive, the developing slave will test you and teat You like an opponent. Why? Because the Master is the worst enemy of the slaves ego that it will ever experience. The Master must be the chronic and unrelenting enemy of the slave's ego. The alternative is that the slave's ego will win and the soul will lose. No person that has ever accepted the full meaning of their destiny has ever done so while their egos still hold a position of altering the importance of their destinies. The best example of that is the Buddha, who would never have achieved what he did without the total sublimation of his own ego. The result of his efforts allowed him to free himself from his ego and thus realize the full meaning of his destiny.

When the Master is at His zenith of loving and accepting, a slave will be the most hateful, disrespectful, ungrateful,resentful, combative individual You will ever experience. Each time a slave's ego entices a Master to anger is when the Master must be ready to express unqualified love for the developing slave. Not that a Master should have pity for the slave but that He understands that it is not the slaves natural desire to challenge the Master, it is the ego's. If the Master's ego is not brought under the Master's control then the Master will not be there to provide the developing slave with what it needs to succeed. If You consistently fail to bring Your own ego under control you will never be a Master.

The slaves Ego

A slave's ego will attack You when You have the least time to deal with it or when You are the most tired or weary. A slave's ego is destructive and creative as the ego's desperation grows. For most slaves this phase will become clearly evident to the Master. However, if the Master seeks to explain things openly with a slave; the things that a slave, from a slave's standpoint, does not need to know, the Master makes Himself more vulnerable to the slave's ego. A slave will ask seemingly benign or innocent questions which the ego uses to find something to attack the Master with. The bottom line is that a slave does not need to know anything about anything other than its obedience to become authenticated as a slave in its soul. Everything else other than its obedience in unnecessary and not needed. The only real value the Master's information may have to the slave is to the slave's ego. The ego must survive against all costs to the destiny of the slave and to be supreme and feel complete. A Master will assure His own vulnerability to the slave's ego if the Master seeks to provide the slave with a reason and answer for everything. As the questions generating from the slave's ego are answered the slave's ego learns what the Master's weak points are, which then proceeds to use that information to become more divisive; more cunning in order to invoke its fits of desperation just at the right time, when the Master least expects it.

A Masters Time

A Masters' time is never under His control. If You demand that your time, efforts and energy be under Your specific control then You will never be a very good Master. A slave's development does not occur when it is convenient, rather it always occurs when it isn't convenient for the Master at all. However, a Master cannot easily turn away any person who honestly wants to develop its slavery. A Master cannot really have any concern for age, looks, body type, or any other consideration other than the individuals real potential to be a slave. If personal independence matters to You then You can never be a Master. If it matters that who You like and who You willingly dedicate Your life to in each potential slave, for the rest of Your life, then being an Owner and Master cannot be Your destiny.

Destiny

As it is with any destiny, what You want does not matter. When a person accepts their destiny, they are accepting a higher form of calling to a life You may not be entirely prepared for: A life that is meted out and defined by the supreme Consciousness of the Universe. You cannot work for two Masters; the desires of Your ego and the destiny that the Universe has spelled out for You. It has to be one of the other. The Universe will not give You your destiny on a silver spoon according to your own perceptions, ideals or visions. The moment that You loose sight of the meaning of Your own destiny it is the moment You will realize failure of it. The Universe will not allow You to be the Owner of slaves and You will not be qualified as an Owner and Master. The same is true for the slave.

The most difficult thing for a Master with slaves in development is that Your hand in providing a slaves attainment of its destiny must be given without any expectation or intention to receive anything in return for Your efforts in the development process. The Master's experience must be given as a pure gift, over and over and over. A Master gives His gift through S&M, through discipline, through direction and spiritual teaching until the slave is completely developed. This requires that the Master allow certain things to take their course. He must allow certain things He perceives in the developing slave to come to the fore in order to be able to identify what areas the developing slave needs attention with. However, the Master must be prepared because the slave does now know nor can it understand this dynamic. For the developing slave it appears as though the Master is ignoring the slave or not giving enough focus or attention to the slave. The slave's ego will accuse You and malign You and imply that You are not a good Master or effective as a Master or that in some way the slave is not receiving what it needs from You. This is not the slave talking it is its ego divisively maneuvering itself for battle and it means to succeed!

The Master must be ready to take responsibility in every area of the slave's life, in what it obeys and disobeys and be responsible for everything the slave does for the rest of its life...still given as a gift by the Master. A Master's intentions must be unselfish.

The Process

The development process of the slave may take months or even years. The responsibility of the slave to the Master never ends and the responsibility to the slave never ends for the Master. Born slaves must feel a connection with their slavery and be reassured from time to time to assure them that their slavery is growing. Everything gets more and more demanding on the Master. It never ends. The Master must be ready to accept this responsibility with no thoughts of receiving anything in return. If He accepts this with the idea that He will receive nothing in return then He will receive everything.

The reason that I have accepted the responsibilities of being a Master and Owner of slaves is not by choice. I have no reasonable choice but to follow that which I believe is My destiny. As the original author states, “I would not wish this on My worst enemy.” Being a Master allows for no time out and for no real personal options. Once a Master always a Master, that is who and what I am. As it is true with slaves, also it is true with Masters that You can try and dismiss the pull of Your destiny, even try to ignore it, but it continues to resurface and come back to almost haunt You.

So a Master must be ready to understand that there is no way out for Him. Once in, always in. There is no divorce from being a Master. A Master cannot pretend to be permanently committed then change His mind. The Universe does not work that way. Once You make a consious commitment to another human being then the bond is made and it is the Master's responsibility to see it through lest there be a stain on His soul.

For a Master it is all about being spiritually clear about Yourself and learning how to discover and enforce the truth about Yourself. A Master must be willing to see Himself as He really is, which includes all the smelly unsavory parts of Your personality. A conscious black spot on Your soul infects the whole soul. By refusing Your destiny You will once again face it again and again until You learn to accept the responsibility of Your destiny. There is no way that You can fudge or compromise Your destiny because it is only granted by the design and purpose of the Universe in connection with the balance of all consciousness. So a Master's obedience is to the Universe and the cause of His destiny, which makes up His spiritual world. His self must be focused on the absolute task of bringing His responsibility, namely the development of the slave to fruition. The slave is counting on it.

For a Master, all of Your egotistical motivation and intention has to be ignored during the stages of the development process of the slave. So the potential slave takes priority. A Master's personal time is what is left over after the primary responsibilities of the slave are taken care of.

A Master must have had several experiences before He is to accept the wholeness of His responsibility. He must have experiences and many failures in order for Him to learn what needs to be done as a Master and Owner of slaves. A slave will run out on You for a lack of honesty or courage. A slave WILL walk off with your heart even though they know that You are a part of them and they are part of You. But, when You are emotionally thrown off the horse You have to keep getting back up and remain prepared to do it all over again.

The gifts You may have or think You have are meaningless to the slave. Even with all the gifts that You think You have, which You give, in love, attention, time, experience and expertise, a slave can act with utter disrespect and anger at the One who wants to and is qualified to give them their life, their destiny and their happiness. Moreover, it never ends. A Master will become the target for all of a slave's negative energy, and the Master must at times invite it, because it is the only honest way to the success of the slave's development and the Master knows it.

So, emotionally a Master is always exposed and has to learn to accept that at times He will be vulnerable. If a Master cuts Himself off from His natural emotions toward thew slave then the Master will not be able to transfer His heart, His love, or power over to the soul of the slave. You can only give what is necessary and empowering for the slave's development and the ultimate realization of the slave's destiny.

Being a Master and Owner of slaves is a thankless job as I can attest with the many slave-failures that I have had from time to time. The young and the beautiful slaves aren't interested in anything so serious as authentic slavery, that much I can also attest to in light of My experiences. They are always focused on their beauty and think it is soemthing they are giving to the Master that deserves somemthign special in return. I have news for those slaves: Everyone will end up ugly, wrinkled and old. Your fleeting beauty and good looks are only a temporary condition. If that is all the slave is focused on or leverages in their own self-interest, as a Master, I am telling You, look elsewhere. These slaves will cause You more hurt and devestation in Your life than any occassion that You can fuck the slave is worth.

However, as a Master You have to be prepared to love any slave that comes into Your life. The more You do for a slave the more You will have to do, take that as a given. However, once You have become relatively successful at the various aspects of the development process the Universe will raise the bar on You and demand more from You. The Master never really has a comfort zone. No matter how much You do there will never be real glory to bask in without paying for it and no one will applaud Your efforts.

The most that a Master can ever expect is an occasional kind word but at the same time You can never allow Yourself to be flattered by it because when You do You will take a step back into being vulnerable to the slave's wily ego and open Yourself up to being hurt by criticism. This is a sure fire way of allowing Your integrity as a Master to be compromised.

There is no one in the world that You can talk to about what You are going through. A Master is always alone in his feelings and thoughts. There is no one from whom You can get advice because every Master's destiny is different. There is no slave that will be Your best friend because that will weaken the bond between the Master and his slaves. Most people could not ever understand what You are doing even after You have attempted to explain it to them. Few will even be interested in listening to You because they are of the opinion that the Master receives all the benefit from such a relationship.

Ultimately, just as it is for the slave, A Master's life is all about doing what We are destined to do. If You are a Master and own slaves, Your connection to life, to love, and to the world will only come from qualifying for living the destiny that has been assigned to You.